On the 10th of February I went to the hospital for a routine check-up, although there was nothing routine about this day. On examination the doctor found that I was dilated to 1.3cmI had been contracting but they were still quite mild. I was admitted to hospital on strict bed rest and put on medication to curb the contractions.

I was 20 weeks and 5 days. We were told that what we needed was a miracle. The idea was to delay labour for 3-4 weeks, to give the baby the best possible chance of survival.

Things were going well until Thursday 17th of February, despite the medication the contractions became stronger and on examination I was 3-4 cm dilated. Labour could not be delayed and because the baby was under 23 weeks they would not offer any intervention.

At 7.58pm on Thursday 17th of February our son Alex Spencer Warren was stillborn. He weighed 445grams and was 29cm long. Below is a photo that was taken shortly after he was born.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for their love, support & prayers during the pregnancy, my hospitalisation and after Alex's birth.

Alex Spencer Warren 

03 Feb - 19 weeks & 5 days 

03 Feb 

20th of January  

On Thursday I had my second antenatal appointment at the hospital. They have told me that they will be seeing me and scaning me every fortnight. Below is an image of the baby and it's heartbeat from Thursday.
The baby is developing well and has a strong heartbeat, according to the sonographer it is a wriggler, although
the placenta is on the front wall so I am yet to feel any of that movement. They are also checking the status of my cervix, as of Thursday's scan it was closed, let's just hope it stays that way!

15 weeks & 5 days

12 weeks & 5 days 

As many of you will know in July I suffered an ectopic pregnancy and lost one of my tubes and was told that the other tube was blocked. The likelihood of becoming pregnant again was significantly reduced. You can imagine our surprise when we were told that I was pregnant. I have decided to use this blog as a way of updating everyone on the progress of this pregnancy, and will include scan images. The image below is from my first ultrasound.
8 week scan